I used to say that I didn't create drama, that drama followed me. And in a sense, this is true. I've still got some inescapable family drama circling around me, but I no longer have much drama as far as my work, my relationship, or my friends go. Note that I went 6 years without being in a serious relationship, in part to help reset my behaviors and attitudes towards men. I also refuse to work for volatile employers or clients.